I don’t want to sound boring but I’m glad you made it to my class today.
Perhaps you may be wondering. What this is all about. It’s a simple class on how to remain sane.
But I’m not insane? You may be saying to yourself. Nope. This is why you need to read this. It is purposefully for those who think they aren’t insane.
Crazy thoughts pop up in everyone’s head once in while. Imagining scenarios that haven’t happened yet. Attributing situations to individuals who may not be having you in mind. Making you flare up for no reason.
Oh yes. Those are a few of the symptoms. Or you don’t think that is insane?
Seeing someone’s photo with his cute family on your status and you experience palpitations.
A friend excelling makes you feel you inadequate. Insecurity.
Your heart skips several beats and you mean to tell me that is not ‘crazy?’
I’m not only here to diagnose your condition but to show you the cure
First, understand yourself. Too simple eh? Make time to know who you are and what your purpose is.
Self-discovery makes you comfortable in your skin. You get to appreciate yourself better. Your confidence level shoots up even when you are in the most tattered clothes.
You get to know that you do not need all the “beautiful things” in the world to make you comfortable.
And your heart doesn’t skip unnecessarily. Over unimportant situations.
You’ll begin to enjoy you in your little corner. When others start seeing you as weird, that is a sign you’ve finally been cured of your insanity. 😊
***This is 5/22 of the #WinterABC2020. The prompt is we are sitting in your class, what can you teach us.***
How I wish I could hold you
To provide you with the comfort that you need
To tell you everything is going to be alright
But that seems impossible
I wish I could embrace you
To assure you that I understand
That I've been through a similar experience
But the circumstances are dissimilar
I wish I could be by your side
To hold your hands and look into your eyes
To assess if indeed you are telling the truth
when you say you're fine
I wish I could give you all that you need
To replace all that you've lost
In order to ease the pain
But I know that wouldn't bring her back
Life has a way of dealing with us on individual bases
To unleash the strength that lies within
and time has the power to heal us
of wounds, hurts and troubles
My wishes will be the words of my prayer
That God gives you the healing, strength and respite
that you desire to navigate these hard times
For this is all I'm capable of.
Today marks Day 11 of the 21 day blog challenge and it’s a free day (no blog topic) and I thought of writing this piece to a dear friend who lost her mum a few weeks ago.
A miracle, if they function.
For which I am grateful.
Almost impossible to have now.
But full is mine.
All under partial lock down.
Yet not socially apart.
People losing these
But my case is different.
We'd have lost our minds
But you've kept us sane.
Taking the hard decisions now.
To you, we are grateful.
No situation is permanent, a popular saying directed to the hopeless to give them hope.
Unfortunately, its implication transcends to the good situation as well.
The bad may not last so is the good, in some cases.
When enjoying the good, the demeanor and fervent wish is for it to last forever but that does not always happen.
The good sometimes gives way to the bad and even the ugly.
There are times that the bad feels like a dark cloud.
They swallow the good and suddenly, the young dies or the old gets sick; limps are amputated and the once vibrant breadwinner loses his daily income.The situation gets real ugly.
Instances like these break our hearts and we ask when they will end.
We pray earnestly but sometimes the prayers seem to hit the roof and fall back onto our heads.
The days become longer during the bad and ugly days and the future may seem bleak.
The same way the good situations give way to real bad and ugly ones,
bad and ugly situations also give way to the good and beautiful.
For there is light at the end of the tunnel.
The situation may currently look real bad but something beautiful is springing forth. Keep the faith and don't lose hope!
This is the fifth of the 21-day lock down blogging challenge and the subject is ‘The Good, The Bad and The Ugly.’ After researching, I found that ‘The Good, The Bad and the Ugl’y is the title of a movie released in the 60s. Honestly, I don’t know what this challenge wants us to write about but I hope I did a good job, though.